I won't let AI drive development until it is 99.999% flawless. The reason is that's the point where I can actually forget everything I've learned without worrying about it. Until then I drive, AI is on the side helping me unblock and doing anything repetitive.

Of course, it depends on use cases, and for some things like small FE landing pages, I think it's perfectly fine to delegate and forget.

If making software with AI makes you happy then have at it, if it doesn't then don't.

If you hate AI and that makes you happy, again, great.

Just don't blindly follow either side of the parroting extreme voices (extreme "ai-pilled" and "doomerist anti-ai") just because they are the loudest voices.

Likely chances are, both of them have a (paid) agenda to push to influence you.