TL;DR:

  I’m not comfortable with it, but the utility is just too great for me to take a principled stance here. I like it, and I want it, so I’m using it. Maybe that’s morally questionable, or worse. But, as I said: here I am.

Sigh. I was so looking forward to finally being able to use Xfce in Wayland. Not anymore. Not at that price.