> The Simple Rule
> If the Friday you’re referring to is beyond seven days from today, including today, it’s next Friday.
That's not a such simple rule. I'm not even sure what "including today" means.
A simple rule would be: next Friday is the first Friday after today.
The whole existence of this website suggests that the term "Next Friday" is at best ambiguous. Especially on a Saturday or Sunday, many people will interpret "Next Friday" as the Friday of next week.
So just be explicit and say "Friday next week".
Your rule is describing this Friday, not next Friday.
Except on Friday's, when "this Friday" means today.
On other days, many people indeed use "this" and "next" synonymously.
Perhaps this is regional? I would identify this Friday as the 15th, and next Friday as the 22nd. Next Friday always means the Friday after the next one, which I notice is insane as a matter of logic, but is the local usage I am familiar with.
> Next Friday always means the Friday after the next one
You're using "the next one" i.e. the next Friday, to refer to the first one after today.
Yes, next Friday is not the next Friday, those two phrases are very different despite that being weird.
Not endorsing this, just reporting from usage.
I've become used to saying: "This coming Friday"
On the one hand, I agree with the author - my definition is the same as theirs. On the other hand, I have moved to a country where everyone else uses a different system (it differs on whether "next friday" is in 6 days if we're talking during saturday). Are they wrong? Is all of this arbitrary? I think that learning to navigate these differences part of being a better communicator and a better person.
> Is all of this arbitrary?
You’re describing language.
Isn't next Friday the Friday after this Friday? Which is the Friday after last Friday, even if it's Friday.
Simple as.
This is a fine rule, but don't rely on it if you're trying to learn English. Typically, you simply wouldn't use the term "next <dayofweek>" in the first place unless context already makes it clear. E.g. you would only say "next Friday" if:
- Today (or perhaps tomorrow) is Friday, and so is clearly not the one you mean
- You were just talking about the upcoming Friday ("Not this Friday, but next Friday")
Also note that people often say "The Friday after next", referring to the Friday after the upcoming Friday, which breaks the "next" rule.
If we follow the same logic.
If today is may 2026, and you want to do something "next September", are you referring to september 2027? After all, months are also grouped in years.
The fact that "next [X]day" skips the one on the current week is arbitrary, and probably more confusing than if it didn't. If people you are talking to understands that, go on, but otherwise keep in mind that "next [X]day" is confusing and you should clarify or say it differently
This doesn't fully accord with my intuition, but I absolutely believe that the best course of action is listed: USE A CALENDAR DATE!
In American English idiom, “next Friday” is the Friday after the coming weekend, regardless if there’s a Friday (“this Friday”) in between. With some ambiguity if it’s currently the weekend.
I just cannot read the default hand-scrawl font on Excalidraw diagrams. I'm not dyslexic, but my brain looks at it and doesn't see words.
Don't agree with Friday of the following week will be "This Friday" on this week's Saturday.
I’m of a mind to agree, if only because I like the idea last “Friday” was the one just past, and “the next Friday” is in 6 days!
That is certainly the point where it started to feel arbitrary for me.
“Friday next week”. Sorted.
"Next week's Friday" -> "Next's Friday" -> "Next Friday
Still confusing, but at least I understand where it comes from.
Today I learned when next friday is :D
English is a great language for defining specs
"next Friday" is short for "Friday of next week".
I don't like it, it offends me, but it's what most English speakers mean by "next Friday"