jordwest
5 hours ago
The tendency to push and pull on sensations has significantly fallen away for me, although I wouldn't say it's "gone" I might be able to add something here.
I would agree with Shinzen Young that almost all suffering is caused by this tendency. Not pain or emotional states, but certainly the suffering associated with them.
> I don’t think tanha has 1000 contributing factors; I think it has one crisp, isolatable factor.
I think this is a good intuition. I would suggest if you want to get to the root of it you might like to explore it experientially first. Everyone reading this has direct access to this mechanism in subjective experience, without the need for any neuroimaging equipment or meditating for lifetimes in a cave. Additionally, when you see it for what it is, it begins to unwind.
If I were to put it down to one thing, it would be the tendency to reflect on reality and then to believe that that reflection is actually reality. It sounds simple, and it is, but the tendency runs so deep and there are a multitude of beliefs that get in the way of actually seeing things clearly. If you're willing to question every single one of those beliefs right down to the places you never thought to question or that seem scary to question, then it's available to you.
Edit: A great resource for anyone interested in exploring these beliefs is Kevin Schanilec's interpretation of the 10 fetters at simplytheseen.com. Just a word of warning though, explore this only if you're willing to have your perception of reality turned upside down (and not just intellectually).