Just going by the forum thread you linked to, I have to say that was a textbook case of self-entitled users demanding volunteers move their asses into gear and get working pronto, free of charge, on OPEN SOURCE projects that those self entitled users need now, and dammit - they deserve it.
I'm not sure as to the point of this thread. Are you criticizing Jose Valim's cobtribution to that thread? (where he tried to remind folks that, those LSP devs are volunteers working on open source, unpaid, to help others)
It's not the only place to discuss issues with the language or system. So how is the ecosystem "incrementally becoming worst over time"?
Because the incentives are aligned around 2 companies needs. Most initiatives are highjack by them. We have very little transparency in terms of where the money is going.
And lastly, the person of “zero expectations” ethos is admirable but doesn’t address the modern reality where open source often underpins critical infrastructure. While having strong opinions behind the scenes, and halting initiatives to grow, diverging accountability and responsibility to "zero expectations"
Tell the Admins to stop hiding posts, let's start there.