mylaaccount
7 months ago
Tech people I meet in LA are much less careerist in general compared to the Bay Area (where I used to live). They work for either big tech, smaller not household name companies, or remote. Pay is on average less than the bay. Tech people in LA live in LA for the lifestyle and use the job to fund their lifestyle.
Personally (and contrary to the other comment about LA) it’s been the best place I have lived. It’s a polarizing city, understandably. But I think if you can make enough money and are ok with driving there’s endless amounts of things to do and passionate people to meet.
frizzlebox
7 months ago
> if you…are ok with driving there’s endless amounts of things to do and passionate people to meet.
I’m someone who is currently struggling to find these people; what has worked for you? It often feels that everyone cool is trapped in their car, and we are destined to never cross paths.
mylaaccount
7 months ago
For me:
1. Neighborhood matters a lot. This determines the kinds of events you’ll go to and people you see regularly. I explored a lot before I settled some place that felt like home. I live some place with good walkability and being able to walk to a coffee shop or park has been very important.
2. Hobbies. Outdoor fitness, DIY/underground music, and board games for me. It took some digging to find groups I liked (some of which I found out about online and some by asking people I met), but now I participate in at least one event/meetup pertaining to these hobbies every week (more if I can). Ex helping out at a DIY show, run clubs, hiking groups, board game meetups.
3. Having a dog. I’m outside regularly bumping into people. Having a dog often sparks a conversation and helped me to know my neighbors. You don’t really need a dog though any way you can open a conversation is good. Compliment someone’s shirt, ask a question, etc
So TL;DR walkable neighborhood that suits you, find something related to your hobbies and do it as much as you can, start conversations.
Good luck, it took me years before I got into a rhythm.
worik
7 months ago
> Having a dog
Always good advice to have a dog.
If your lifestyle precludes a dog, are you entirely sure you have decent lifestyle?
Dogs have taught me so much about loyalty, love and joy.
Some dogs also teach patience....
timhigins
7 months ago
what neighborhood did you choose? was it santa monica, venice or mahattan beach? did you have any second choices/other favorites?
mylaaccount
7 months ago
East Hollywood closer to Los feliz. I also like Long Beach and San Pedro, but maybe more to visit than live.
brcmthrowaway
7 months ago
Frogtown
bingohbangoh
7 months ago
the phrase I've heard about LA is that its "a company town for creatives."
linotype
7 months ago
If you work remote or in office two days a week, driving becomes more than manageable. ;)
gabrielsroka
7 months ago
> Pay is on average less than the bay.
But how is the cost of living? or is that already factored in?
Rebelgecko
7 months ago
It varies quite a bit depending what you consider "LA". Unfortunately a lot of tech jobs are in parts of LA that are just as expensive or even worse than the Bay Area. You can always commute, but minimizing car time is like the #1 most important thing for maximizing happiness here
coffeecoders
7 months ago
Not sure if you mean LA-LA proper, but Orange County is definitely cheaper. Of course, it depends on where you work. I used to commute from Irvine to Santa Monica, and that drive was hell.
mylaaccount
7 months ago
Not really better than the Bay Area I’d say, especially in areas with a higher concentration of tech jobs. I think LA (and SD for that matter) are poor choices strictly financially speaking. But there’s more to life than spending every dollar as efficiently as possible.
linotype
7 months ago
Exactly, I love LA and there is no amount of money someone could pay me to move to SF. Interesting work, maybe, but SF is just nasty every time I go.
Edit: this is my personal opinion, I shouldn’t be so harsh on SF. Obviously a ton of great food and talented people there, it’s just not for me.