Smart Dating Assistant – AI-Powered Help for Better Matches and Conversations

12 pointsposted 8 months ago
by tfreundp

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19 Comments

kylehotchkiss

8 months ago

This is not what society needed. This is literally a South Park plotline. But maybe stuff like this will just slowly cause dating apps to fade into irrelevance and force people to find better ways to meet others. So maybe there's an upside?

andrei_says_

8 months ago

Maybe an upside is that it will be chatting the other bots / smart dating assistants.

In seriousness, online dating becoming completely useless as a dating tool is probably an upside to society.

(Online dating is still useful as a tool for money extraction. Just not for dating.)

tfreundp

8 months ago

We hope that new alternatives will emerge, but there is a specific group of individuals who truly believe these tools can help boost their confidence.

In contrast, we believe apps like Rizz are not only superficial, but also fail to provide a personalized or meaningful experience. We see a unique opportunity to make a real difference in this niche market.

We invite you to apply and try it for yourself. The journey ahead is long, but we're excited about the potential we have to create something better

kylehotchkiss

8 months ago

There are few things as significant and human as trying to find a partner. Gotta persevere the sanctity of that. All the best!

vunderba

8 months ago

On the one hand, you say that this will help you discover your "unique voice" and yet in your post: "suggest messages that get replies". So your prospective match isn't getting to know you, it's getting to know an LLM.

How is this better than the classic bait-and-switch of using a fake or heavily doctored profile pic, except now it's extended to even the user's personality?

tfreundp

8 months ago

Great question! Our approach isn't to replace the user’s personality but to enhance their natural communication.

Think of it as a guide helping you express yourself more effectively, especially if you're shy or unsure how to start. The messages are tailored to reflect your unique voice and style as much as possible.

It’s about building confidence and fostering authentic conversations, not masking who you are. We are not yet but with time we think we will get there

dheerkt

8 months ago

Skeptical that this will be a "good" experience for everyone involved considering how generic AI openers/responses are, but also hopeful that it can reduce friction for some.

Excited to see what y'all cook up.

tfreundp

8 months ago

This might be our greatest differentiator.

We are trying to make it as personalized to you as possible. Currently, it is still limited, but we seek as much context of the user and the matches to personalize each message over time.

Please apply to check it out!

nicbou

8 months ago

Why do you feel like this will improve the dating experience?

tfreundp

8 months ago

Many people struggle with awkwardness and lack of confidence when it comes to dating.

Our goal is to help you amplify who you are, and discover your unique voice and style, all while providing personalized dating coaching.

By boosting your confidence in what you're saying and doing, we believe you’ll naturally see more matches, secure dates, and ultimately build meaningful relationships.

Please apply and try it out yourself! We would love your feedback.

nprateem

8 months ago

So someone lacking the confidence to even chat online with someone they've matched with will be able to use your AI magic wand to send incredible messages and get a date.

And what do you suppose would happen when their match actually meets this unconfident person in real life?

What a waste of everyone's time.

informal007

8 months ago

For nerd like me, this can reduce the level of awkward.

tfreundp

8 months ago

Please apply! We would love to have you as a beta tester!

user

8 months ago

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