hypeatei
4 hours ago
These conversations usually turn into philosophical or religious arguments around life. My opinion is that suicide is completely valid and should not be stigmatized or illegal. Making it "off limits" and scary is how you isolate and drive people towards more unreliable and violent methods of killing themselves.
Yes, death is very sad and uncomfortable but it's a part of life. Whether we leave at 25 or 80 is still equally sad but I don't see it any different. It should be our choice.
bwestergard
3 hours ago
If criminalization drives people toward worse methods, then I see how it would make sense to stop criminalization if we assume it doesn't affect the suicide rate.
But are you confident that stigma doesn't decrease the rate of suicide? If you believe it does, but still object to stigmatization, why?
hypeatei
2 hours ago
If I understand your question correctly: I'm against stigmatization because I believe it unnecessarily causes more suffering for the person dealing with suicidal thoughts. It shuns them and may cause them to land in a mental institution or getting arrested with both of those having cascading negative effects.
Essentially, if we remove the stigma and update legislation to reflect that, then people experiencing suicidal thoughts won't fear repercussions for merely thinking about, or exploring options around suicide.
ikgdeeg
3 hours ago
This argument reads like Stallmans (previous?) opinion on statutory rape:
> Stallman, who in 2006 wrote, "I am skeptical of the claim that voluntarily [sic] pedophilia harms children”
Essentially you are saying “I am skeptical of the claim that voluntarily medical suicide harms anyone”
In both instances it seems like you each are disregarding, ignoring, or are ignorant of the counter arguments in order to uphold your own position as some kind of enlightened rationality.
Are you unswayed by testimonials of suicide survivors who say they immediately regretted the decision?
Are you unaware of the predatory nature of medical solutions? Can you imagine an opioid epidemic level of commission based kickbacks but for suicide booths?
How will you hear about this option? Do you expect your doctor to suggest it? Advertisements on TV?
We are a very impressionable species, especially when we are vulnerable.
It is why big corporations pour so much money into coming up with ways to break down your defenses to trick you into doing things against your best interest. Hungry? Eat this sugary candy bar! Sad? Pay us to kill you!
gambiting
3 hours ago
I'm so confused by your comparison. Children cannot consent, which is where this argument ends. Whether they are harmed by a sexual act or not is not really relevant in the slightest - they cannot consent to it which makes it statutory rape.
In case of voluntary ending your own life - we are talking about consenting adults(or at least I hope we are!).
>>Are you unswayed by testimonials of suicide survivors who say they immediately regretted the decision?
Look, we can both play the emotional game - are you unswayed by the testimonials of people living in lifelong debiliating pain and suffering who are not given any legal way to end their own suffering? Someone who is paralyzed in every way other than blinking their eyes is telling you that pure existence is suffering and they want their life to end - you're going to stand in front of them and say "no, you're not allowed to"? You'd be stronger than most of us I guess.
>>Can you imagine an opioid epidemic level of commission based kickbacks but for suicide booths?
No, I actually can't.
>>Sad? Pay us to kill you!
If you can't imagine any other reason why people want to kill themselves other than being sad then I don't know what to tell you.
ikgdeeg
2 hours ago
I chose to reply to this comment because OP said:
> These conversations usually turn into philosophical or religious arguments around life.
I feel this is an absurd argument, as I listed, there are plenty of reasons to push back on this outside the purview of philosophy or religion. For instance, my mention of the predatory history of some medical interventions.
And
> My opinion is that suicide is completely valid and should not be stigmatized or illegal.
OP said “completely valid” and I would argue in reality everyone has a “line”, and I was using extreme examples to illuminate that we all have this line and it is more productive to discuss where it lies than to assume we hold the only rationale position.
It worked because you started to draw your line.
Namely, your
> are you unswayed by the testimonials of people living in lifelong debiliating pain and suffering who are not given any legal way to end their own suffering? Someone who is paralyzed in every way other than blinking their eyes is telling you that pure existence is suffering and they want their life to end - you're going to stand in front of them and say "no, you're not allowed to"?
And again,
> you can't imagine any other reason why people want to kill themselves other than being sad then I don't know what to tell you.
So you disagree with the OPs “completely valid” and feel it should be valid under carefully considered circumstances?
So where do you draw the line there? Only for sufferers of chronic pain? What would you tell to a sad but otherwise healthy person who elects to get the procedure?
Also, do you have resources for these testimonials? Or statistics on if they are more or less common than those that I mentioned?
> No, I actually can't.
Then you are willfully ignorant. There are so many examples of predatory medicine and advertising. Why would this intervention be free from the barbs of human nature? What about suicide booths exempts them from enshittification?
hypeatei
3 hours ago
Your counter arguments are basically the "slippery slope" fallacy in the sense that if we were to legalise suicide, it devolvles into chaos with no restrictions and people killing themselves because they saw an ad.
Obviously I'm not advocating for that or the glorification of it but merely the option to if someone decides that they would rather not be alive instead of continuing to live.
> Are you unswayed by testimonials...
Are you unswayed by the people with multiple failed attempts that eventually succeed? Why did they want to leave so bad and why didn't we allow them to in a safe and guaranteed manner?
ikgdeeg
2 hours ago
I chose to reply to this comment because OP said:
> These conversations usually turn into philosophical or religious arguments around life.
I feel this is an absurd argument, as I listed, there are plenty of reasons to push back on this outside the purview of philosophy or religion. For instance, my mention of the predatory history of some medical interventions.
And
> My opinion is that suicide is completely valid and should not be stigmatized or illegal.
OP said “completely valid” and I would argue in reality everyone has a “line”, and I was using extreme examples to illuminate that we all have this line and it is more productive to discuss where it lies than to assume we hold the only rationale position.
It worked because you started to draw your line.
Namely, your “not advocating for” advertisement, which I think is in opposition to the OPs “completely valid and not stigmatized” position.
> Are you unswayed by the people with multiple failed attempts that eventually succeed?
I’m open to hearing these. Do you have any resources?
Do you think legality of the act should be based on the statistics of if positive or negative testimonials are more prominent?
HeatrayEnjoyer
2 hours ago
This comparison is so absurd that it can be safely discarded without further discussion.
ikgdeeg
2 hours ago
What a shame. I would have liked to hear your reasoning.