A bit out of left field: The Best Interface Is No Interface. The blog post is good enough; no need to read the whole book I think

Don't Make Me Think is old but still applicable.

Sweat The Small Stuff by Rory Sutherland is a talk worth watching.

"The Design of Everyday Things" by Don Norman

"Refactoring UI" by Adam Wathan & Steve Schoger (creators of Tailwind)

+1. Would love a UI primer for developers.